Welcome to Homosexual Handyman!

Hey - I’m Ben.

I’m the guy who fixes things… sometimes with tools, sometimes with humor, and sometimes by simply sitting quietly and figuring myself out one stubborn thought at a time.

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I grew up learning that survival isn’t glamorous. It’s duct tape, thrift-store solutions, repeating the same mistakes, and still finding the strength to wake up and try again. My life has been a mix of chaos, heartbreak, weird detours, mental health storms, and a handful of unexpected lessons that ended up becoming the blueprint for this blog.

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At some point, I realized something important:
people like us don’t always need inspirational speeches - we need real conversations.

The kind where it’s okay to say, “Yeah, I’m not okay today.”
The kind where surviving counts as winning.

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So, Homosexual Handyman became my place to talk honestly - about life, money struggles, family complications, mental health, DIY or tech tips that make life easier, relationships, resilience, and the weird little hacks that keep me moving forward.

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I don’t have everything figured out.
I’m not polished. I’m not perfect. I’m still learning.

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But I am here - showing up, sharing what I know, laughing when I can, and refusing to quit.

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If any part of my story feels familiar… welcome.
Pull up a chair. You’re not alone here.